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When love and selfhood feel mutually exclusive

I love my wife deeply but I've started to notice I feel more myself when she's not around, which scares me about what that means for our marriage.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The loss of individual identity within partnership creates fear about the sustainability of deep commitment.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Listening in love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.