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Scenario

When people's attempts to comfort make grief worse

I miscarried at twenty weeks and my mother-in-law keeps saying everything happens for a reason and I want to scream at her that some things just happen for no reason at all.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Meaning-making in the face of senseless loss can feel like violence against the reality of random suffering.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and anger — the rage underneath?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.