I moved across the country to be closer to my aging parents but they are more interested in maintaining their independence than spending time with me and I feel like I sacrificed my life for nothing.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are learning that love cannot be earned through self-sacrifice when the recipient hasn't asked for it.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.