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When You Can't Make Friends in a New City Despite Trying Everything

I moved to a new city six months ago for work and I have made exactly zero meaningful friendships despite trying meetups and apps and I am starting to think there is something fundamentally wrong with me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The terror of being unlovable masquerades as a practical problem of social logistics.

Ideas that help explain it
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