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When you blame yourself for your partner's affair

I never cheated but I emotionally withdrew from my marriage for years and now my husband is having an affair and I wonder if I drove him to it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are trying to trace a clear line of causation through the complex terrain of two people slowly disconnecting from each other.

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“Where Are You with Affairs, Betrayal, and Trust Broken?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.