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Scenario

When you blame yourself for your partner's affair

I never cheated but I emotionally withdrew from my marriage for years and now my husband is having an affair and I wonder if I drove him to it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are trying to trace a clear line of causation through the complex terrain of two people slowly disconnecting from each other.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Affairs, Betrayal, and Trust Broken?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.