I never saw my parents resolve a conflict, just sweep things under the rug until someone exploded, and my partner and I have been having the same fight for two years without ever actually solving anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
You never learned that problems can be solved, only endured or detonated.
“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.