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When rejection triggers desire and availability kills attraction

I only feel attracted to men when they start pulling away and I hate this about myself but cannot seem to change it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your heart has confused the adrenaline of abandonment with the electricity of love.

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“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.