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Scenario

When rejection triggers desire and availability kills attraction

I only feel attracted to men when they start pulling away and I hate this about myself but cannot seem to change it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your heart has confused the adrenaline of abandonment with the electricity of love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.