I pick fights with my partner right before we get closer because chaos feels safer than peace - my childhood was nothing but drama and crisis.
More people experience this than they realize.
The nervous system calibrated to chaos will create familiar turbulence to avoid the unknown territory of stability.
“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.