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Scenario

When keeping promises enables others to break them

I promised my ex-husband we would never badmouth each other to our kids but he has been poisoning them against me for months and I do not know if keeping my word is helping anyone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unilateral integrity can become a form of self-destruction when the other party abandons the shared covenant.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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