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Scenario

When you lose yourself trying to be loveable

I realize I've spent my whole marriage trying to earn my husband's approval instead of just being myself and I don't know who I am without his validation.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The performance of worthiness can eclipse authentic connection, leaving both people loving a construction rather than a person.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.