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Scenario

Why You Only Want What You Can't Have in Relationships

I realized I only feel attracted to my partner when they're slightly out of reach and when they're fully available I lose interest.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Desire has been conditioned to need the tension of uncertainty, making love's security feel like death to passion.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.