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When Helping Becomes Your Only Love Language

I realized I only feel close to people when they need me to fix their problems and when they're doing well I don't know how to connect with them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart that learned to earn love through service can struggle to recognize its own worth when others no longer need rescuing.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional Availability?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.