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When helping others becomes compulsive rather than caring

I realized I only feel valuable when I'm helping others and I don't know if my relationships are based on genuine love or my need to be needed.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The confusion between self-worth and service can transform authentic generosity into emotional manipulation.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.