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Scenario

When You Say I Love You Out of Habit Instead of Feeling

I realized yesterday that I say 'I love you' to my partner because I think I should, not because I feel it, and now I'm questioning if I've been lying to both of us for months.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The distinction between performed love and authentic feeling has collapsed, leaving doubt about the foundation of intimate connection.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The philosophy of love — from Plato to contemporary?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.