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When You Say I Love You Out of Habit Instead of Feeling

I realized yesterday that I say 'I love you' to my partner because I think I should, not because I feel it, and now I'm questioning if I've been lying to both of us for months.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The distinction between performed love and authentic feeling has collapsed, leaving doubt about the foundation of intimate connection.

Worth thinking about

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.