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Scenario

When in-laws compare you to your partner's ex

I remarried last year and my new mother-in-law constantly compares me to my husband's first wife and tells me how much better she was at cooking and decorating.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Being measured against a predecessor creates a competition with a ghost that cannot be won.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Remarriage and second chances?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.