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How witnessing toxic marriage makes all commitment feel dangerous

I sabotage every relationship right when it gets serious because I watched my parents destroy each other in the name of love.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The early imprint of love as destruction creates an unconscious drive to escape before the inevitable devastation begins.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”

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