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When you need more space after moving in with your partner

I said yes to moving in together but I'm realizing I need more alone time than I thought and I don't know how to ask for space without hurting his feelings

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The architecture of togetherness requires rooms for solitude, but asking for space feels like rejection when boundaries are confused with barriers.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boundaries in Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.