Periagoge
Scenario

Why you keep going back to people who hurt you

I slept with my ex last week even though he ghosted me six months ago and I feel disgusting about how easily I let him back in.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your heart returns to familiar pain like a moth to flame, mistaking recognition for belonging.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.