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Scenario

Why you feel relieved when someone's suffering ends

I spent years caring for my dying father and now that he is gone I feel relief instead of just sadness and it makes me question if I really loved him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The end of witnessing prolonged suffering brings natural relief that feels like betrayal of love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Metta — Buddhist loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.