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Scenario

When gaining new citizenship feels like betrayal

I started crying during the citizenship ceremony because becoming American felt like officially abandoning everyone I left behind.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Legal belonging in a new place can trigger guilt about those who remained in danger and survivors' guilt about escape.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost homeland — diaspora mourning?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.