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When discovering asexuality later in life affects existing relationships

I think I might be asexual but I've been married for twelve years and I don't know what that means for my husband or our future.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Late-arriving self-knowledge can feel like both liberation and catastrophe when others have built their lives around who we thought we were.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual Desire and Sexuality in Relationship?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.