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Scenario

When You Only Love What You Cannot Have

I think I'm only capable of loving people who don't love me back, and the moment someone actually wants me, I lose interest completely.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Desire functions through absence rather than presence, suggesting love may be more about longing than connection.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The philosophy of love — from Plato to contemporary?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.