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Scenario

When reconciliation does not heal what you hoped it would

I thought I wanted to reconcile with my ex-husband but now that we are trying I realize I just missed the fantasy of who he could have been.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The devastating discovery that what you mourned was not the person you lost, but the person you imagined they might become.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love in midlife?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.