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Scenario

When You Forgive Out of Fear of Abandonment

I told my partner I forgive them for breaking my trust, but I realize I only said it because I was terrified they'd leave if I didn't.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using forgiveness as a strategy to control someone else's love for you.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.