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When temporary celibacy becomes fear of re-engagement

I took a vow of celibacy during my divorce proceedings to focus on healing but now they are finalized and I am terrified to be sexual again.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Protective withdrawal can become habitual avoidance, making return to vulnerability feel more dangerous than the original wound.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Celibacy & Love Without Sex?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.