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Scenario

Why relationship fears can sabotage once-in-a-lifetime opportunities

I turned down a Fulbright scholarship to Japan because my boyfriend at the time said long distance wouldn't work and we broke up six months later anyway.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love's temporary anxieties can convince us to abandon permanent possibilities, leaving us with neither.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost possibility — paths not taken?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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