Periagoge
Scenario

How to protect yourself from toxic Ubuntu family members

I want to limit contact with my alcoholic uncle but he raised me after my parents died, and Ubuntu loyalty feels like it requires me to endure his destructive behavior.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Genuine care is being confused with enabling harm in the name of unconditional kinship loyalty.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.