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When your partner uses guilt to influence your holiday plans

I want to visit my family for the holidays but my girlfriend says if I really loved her I'd want to spend our first Christmas together instead

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love becomes measurement when choosing others, even temporarily, is framed as evidence of insufficient devotion rather than acknowledgment of multiple loyalties.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boundaries in Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.