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Scenario

Why healthy boundary-setting can feel like betraying who you used to be

I was always the peacemaker in my family and after going to therapy I have started setting boundaries and now everyone is angry with me and I feel like I am losing myself trying to find myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Growing into wholeness requires dismantling the people-pleasing patterns that once felt like love, leaving you temporarily belonging nowhere.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost identity — who you were before?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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