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Scenario

When missed opportunities haunt your grief

I was supposed to visit my grandmother the day she died but canceled because I was tired, and I keep thinking she died alone because of me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The timing of death can make ordinary choices feel like moral failures with permanent consequences.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and relief — complex feelings after difficult deaths?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.