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How proximity to suffering creates unexpressed obligation

I watched my neighbor struggle with cancer treatments alone for months and only waved politely, never offering the help I kept thinking about giving.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Witnessing pain up close can generate both empathy and paralysis, leaving us complicit in isolation we could have interrupted.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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