Periagoge
Scenario

When anger toward the dying becomes regret for the grieving

I wrote my grandmother angry letters I never sent when she was dying, and now I wish I had written her love letters instead.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unexpressed anger can transform into self-reproach when death removes the possibility of repair.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and regret — what we wish we'd said?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.