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When sexual incompatibility meets genuine love

I'm asexual but I fell in love with someone who has a high sex drive, and we're trying to figure out if love is enough.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love must negotiate the gap between mismatched fundamental needs without losing its essential nature.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

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