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How to handle attraction to someone else while in a relationship

I'm attracted to my coworker and nothing has happened but I think about them constantly and I feel like I'm already cheating on my partner just in my mind.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The guilt over natural human attraction is creating more suffering than the attraction itself.

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