I'm doing my father's shraddha but my mother is still alive and she keeps correcting everything I do and saying I'm doing it wrong and it makes me feel like a failure.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to honor the dead becomes complicated when the living cannot agree on what honor looks like.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.