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How anticipating disability loss can overshadow present capability

I'm going blind and my husband keeps talking about all the things we need to do before I can't see them anymore, and it feels like he's planning my funeral while I'm still alive.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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His urgency to capture what remains is inadvertently emphasizing everything that will be taken rather than what is still possible.

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