Periagoge
Scenario

Why merciful deaths can feel like punishment

I'm grateful my father died quickly but I never got to say goodbye and I don't know if I'm more thankful or angry about how it happened.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The manner of death shapes the nature of grief in ways that can make blessing and curse indistinguishable.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and gratitude — the paradox?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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