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Scenario

How to mourn someone who is alive but fundamentally changed

I'm grieving the person my brother used to be before addiction changed him completely, but he's still alive so no one understands why I feel like someone died.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Addiction, mental illness, and trauma can end the person you knew while leaving their body behind, creating grief without death.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Disenfranchised grief — when loss isn't recognized?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.