I'm in love with my best friend's sister and if I pursue her it will be seen as a betrayal of his trust and hospitality, but I can't stop thinking about her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Desire disrupts the careful architecture of social bonds, forcing a choice between loyalty and longing.
“Where Are You with Love in Honor and Shame Cultures?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.