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How fear of abandonment destroys relationships

I'm in my first serious relationship at 35 and I love her but I keep sabotaging things when they get too good because I don't trust that someone could actually want to stay with me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Self-protection mechanisms are creating the very rejection they seek to avoid.

Ideas that help explain it
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