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When Cross-Cultural Dating Makes You Lose Yourself

I'm starting to lose my Filipino identity because I'm so focused on fitting into my white boyfriend's world and I don't know who I am anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The self dissolves when love demands the erasure of one's own becoming.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating Across Cultures and Traditions?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.