Periagoge
Scenario

How to handle guilt when you miss saying kaddish

I'm supposed to say kaddish for my father every day for eleven months but I keep forgetting and then I feel like I'm failing him all over again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of remembrance becomes another source of inadequacy in an already broken heart.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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