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Scenario

Why acts of service sometimes feel invisible as love

I've been doing acts of service for my wife for fifteen years - cooking, cleaning, fixing things - but she keeps saying I never tell her I love her, and I feel like she can't see that I'm saying it every day.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When love is expressed in a language the receiver doesn't speak, both giver and receiver can feel simultaneously generous and deprived.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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