I've been estranged from my brother for five years and just found out he's in the ICU and might die, and I don't know if I have the right to show up.
More people experience this than they realize.
Old wounds and fresh grief can collide at bedsides, forcing impossible choices about reconciliation in the shadow of death.
“Where Are You with Sudden loss vs. expected loss?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.