I've been the secondary partner for two years and my married boyfriend keeps promising to leave his wife but never does.
More people experience this than they realize.
Hope deferred becomes its own form of bondage, especially when dressed in the language of eventual freedom.
“Where Are You with Polyamory & Non-Monogamy?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.