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How to distinguish between trauma bonding and authentic connection online

I've been using a dating app specifically for people with my chronic illness and finally found someone who understands but I'm afraid we're bonding over shared suffering rather than genuine compatibility.

Mira
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared wounds can create profound understanding while masquerading as romantic compatibility, confusing healing with loving.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and technology — digital relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.