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When long-term relationships trigger questions about sexual identity

I've been with my girlfriend for five years but I keep having dreams about being with men and I don't know if it's just fantasy or if I'm lying to myself about who I am.

Mira
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The safety of committed love can paradoxically create space for suppressed desires to emerge.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ Love, Partnership, and Its Varieties?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.