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When you love someone but don't feel passionate about them

I've been with my partner for three years and I love them but I've never felt that spark everyone talks about and I wonder if I'm settling.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between companionate love and romantic intensity raises questions about what constitutes enough.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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