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When romantic love consistently eludes us

I've never been in love and I'm thirty-five, and I'm starting to think there's something fundamentally wrong with me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The absence of expected emotional experiences can create shame that further inhibits the vulnerability required for love.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

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