My ADHD partner hyperfocuses on their hobbies for weeks and I feel completely invisible until they cycle back to needing me and I don't know how to tell them this pattern is breaking my heart.
More people experience this than they realize.
The cyclical nature of attention in neurodivergent relationships can create wounds of abandonment that compound over time.
“Where Are You with Love & Neurodivergence?”
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